Why is there so much question about narcissism and the definition of a narcissistic person?
Life may force you with its destinies to coexist with people and types of human beings that you have no energy to deal with, and you have the right to avoid them, and reduce as much as you can from contact with them, and the worst thing you may meet in the journey of life is an arrogant breadwinner, a narcissist afflicted with himself, and an ignorant renter who did not take knowledge from books.
Wisdom teaches you that the spider’s web is the weakest threads and the weakest of houses, and the spider sees that it is tight because it only knows the size of its victim, and so are the minds of many humans weaker than the spider’s web, they put their nets to the weak victim, and they think that they are great gains!
The failure of a person to become a well-known social, artistic, political or sports figure with fame and status in society, the failure of self-realization without qualifications, nor work to achieve it, the belief of some of them that he is oppressed and life has not done him justice, and that he deserves a greater status than he is and that circumstances and destinies did not help him, and here lies the truth.
The so-called money seeker by wishful thinking and each has his demand and desires, and none of them has been achieved, because the simplest rules for obtaining livelihood and money are supplication, supplication and urgency in requesting issues, for the livelihood of verses and reasons, which is the livelihood of the Wahhab who wants him without account, and the narcissist with wishes often finds arrogant or arrogant family, and this category of people causes them bowing and prostration great embarrassment, especially in front of people. …
There is another category of them who lost their social status due to the deterioration of the family’s financial conditions, and moved to a lower social class, or the departure of the father who financed the family, or falling into crime that resulted in a scandal of abuse of their person in society.
A dreamy personality with a wide imagination, planning a lot and working little, and attaching its failure to flimsy reasons, an unrealistic personality because it sees the world full of mistakes, and that fate plays a major role in dividing fortunes between people, they reject reality and evade the accusation of fate, but they judge the conditions of people that it is based on fortunes, and it is their service and they have no hand in what they are.
Therefore, they resort to intellectual games and the use of tricks, by approximation and distance, and understanding and lack of understanding, and tampering with the personality of the weak, and the victim that they are looking for day and night, because it is the food that they feed on, and they cannot live without practicing their thought, and it causes them a nervous state and oppression akin to addiction, if they do not find those who practice it afflicting them.
The most difficult types of victims of this pathological condition, the wife when her husband is narcissistic, especially if the wife has a university degree higher than the husband’s scientific degree, or the wife is from a rich family, or she works while he does not work, or a wife with attractive beauty and he does not enjoy any beauty and highlights this on occasions and going out for walks and shopping, so you find him hating these gatherings because they cause him embarrassment a lot as he thinks, Most cases end in divorce because it is difficult for a narcissist to love someone other than himself.
Most of those who fall into male narcissism and it is difficult to detect them if you do not have great experience in life and a general culture, including psychology, because they hide from scientists and doctors with strong and strict personalities because it reveals them quickly and burns their paper and fails their tricks and cunning.
In conclusion, there is no room in a lifetime to waste time and effort because you will find yourself at fault, and that what you knew about the narcissist was just an illusion in your mind, so it is preferable to describe the condition as one of the cases that have no cure.
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By Ali Almawali
